The sex is awesome. Conversations are amazing. Then we stopped. For the next six months we both worked on our marriages.

Washington Post advice columnist Carolyn Hax tells a writer to stay out of the “mess” her friends have created with their affair.

Dear Eric: My hubby and I are in our late 60s. Starting in our 30s, we had a large group of friends, with whom we spent many fun weekends together. It was so much fun, and we all treasure those days.

Discovering your spouse is cheating is jarring. With your friend? Crushing. Not only has your partner violated your trust, but the person you call in a pinch, confide in, and socialize with has, too.

Dear Eric: My hubby and I are in our late 60s. Starting in our 30s, we had a large group of friends, with whom we spent many fun weekends together. It was so much fun, and we all treasure those days.