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When we experience lies, betrayal, or other relationship transgressions, we tend to see ourselves as the one being wronged (i.e., the “victim”) and the person who hurt us as the wrongdoer (i.e., the ...

I’ve been thinking about how we keep score in our relationships. It's easy to become frustrated when the people we love don't initiate contact, and it's a common complaint I hear in therapy. “I always ...